Memorial: Birthday of Martha JuliRae Rank
The sun has finally returned to the Pacific Northwest, drawing families to the beaches and waterways of Washington. As I listen to the news of recent swimming accidents, I'm reminded of a summer when I tragically lost my family on the water.
My little sister, Martha JulieRay Rank, would have turned 61 this Fourth of July, 2024.
She drowned at the tender age of 10 at Ozette Lake in Clallam County on July 11, 1973, along with my father, Robert Ray Rank (44), my mother, Joyce Merilyn (Black) Rank (44), and my brother, David Alan Rank (8). They never found my sister and father.
As the 50th anniversary has passed, I remember them with both fondness and sorrow. I never had the chance to share my adulthood with them or introduce them to my four daughters. My children missed out on the love of grandparents, an aunt, and an uncle.
Cold water drownings are a harsh reality in the Pacific Northwest. Even when outdoor temperatures soar past 85 degrees, the lakes, rivers, and streams of Washington State remain dangerously cold. Each time I hear news of another family's tragedy, it brings my loss rushing back as if it happened yesterday. Hypothermia is an unforgiving killer.
While quick medical intervention saves some victims, not everyone is so fortunate. When I hear such stories on the radio, I hope that today's family will find their lost loved one. With waters so cold and currents so swift, finding a body can be difficult, leaving families with a unique and profound sadness.
As you enjoy our beautiful parks and recreation areas, please be cautious. Research your destination and heed the advice of those familiar with the area. Remember, the water is often much colder than you realize. Whether hiking, swimming, or exploring, stick together, wear a whistle, and leave a note in your car detailing your plans. Keep your cell phone charged, even if it stays in the car.
But more than anything, take a moment before you go to have a conversation with your loved ones about safety. Let them know you care. And please, consider making a will before embarking on an extended vacation. Write it into your travel budget. My family died intestate, and with my father’s body never recovered, the legal complications that ensued were a nightmare.
Taking an hour or two to consult with a trusted legal advisor can spare your loved ones from unnecessary hardship. It’s a small but meaningful way to show your enduring love and concern.
As you enjoy our long-awaited summer sun, remember that our stunning cold waters, while breathtaking, can also be treacherous, even when approached with respect.
I'll be thinking of you out there.
Stacey Mayer
Update: June 2012
An internet miracle! I've been contacted by readers who shared a connection to Martha and my family. Two of Martha's classmates from Sacajawea Elementary in Seattle, WA, and two of my Dad's music students reached out to share their memories and memorabilia. I am deeply grateful! These connections, spanning back thirty-seven to fifty years, have brought me closer to those who knew and loved my lost family members. Thank you for reaching out. Emails are welcome.
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Today is forty years since the Ozette accident. I found myself reflecting on who I was when the phone rang that day, and who I have become.
ReplyDeleteTo my family; I miss you every day, and always.